In an almost sexless relationship.

2021.10.16 20:45 Zealousideal_Cow8070 In an almost sexless relationship.

Me (M24) in a relationship with my girlfriend (F29). For the last few months I’ve been working full-time roofing and taking two online college classes. She is a dialysis tech and also taking two online classes for nursing currently. We have been together for a little over two years. We started dating after 3 months of hooking up and than I moved in basically right after that. The sex was frequent (at least twice a week) for the first 6 months after the first time we hooked up and than it basically declined rapidly. It went to once every 2 weeks for awhile and than moved to about once every 3 weeks or to what its been for about a year now which is roughly 1 time a month. Sometimes it’s twice a month if we do it twice in one sitting. I’m getting to the point where I don’t think I can’t do it anymore. Me and her have a good relationship from my perspective. She’s always happy to see me. We enjoy being around each other. I’ve talked to her about it at least 4-5 times before and she always says she’s tired or she’s too busy. She isn’t. She has enough time to watch TV and ask me to go out with her and do other activities, but sex is never one of them. If we have sex it’s because I had to initiate it every time. Most of the time she just wants head but we have sex so that I can cum is basically what I get from it. She got drunk and came home the other night and long story short she said she didn’t think I would have her back or get into a physical altercation for her. I’ve always had her back and ran every guy off that has tried to hit on her in my prescience; which is why I was so pissed when she basically insinuated I was a pussy. Maybe that’s the reason she doesn’t want sex but either way theres nothing I can do about that accept wait to get in a fight in public with her watching. Which I would absolutely do for her at the drop of a dime whenever it’s warranted. I went through her phone once in the beginning of the relationship and saw messages of how she would basically ask some guys she was seeing for their dicks or she would drive to a guys job site just to suck him off in the parking lot. All of that is fine but it doesn’t feel like she would ever do that for me. She tried to tell me she isn’t that sexual but those messages say otherwise. Recently, her long time friend texted her to say hey since it’s been awhile. They were talking about her friends guy problems and then her friend asked about if she had a boyfriend and she said “yeah he be gettin on my nerves sometimes lol” and then she asked if I was black or white and she said “he white I was seeing this black guy he was so fine but he was playing games I be going back and forth.” Ok to me I don’t see why she had to mention this dude in the first place. She just used to fuck him all the time and seemed really whipped by the text messages. She used to check my phone to btw not saying it’s right but it has given me insight. Now this wouldn’t get to me if we had more frequent sex or if she even seemed like she liked it as much but thats not the case. Ive been super open about it before and mentioned all this before to her. Nothing works. Im tired her of feeling like her friend and not her boyfriend or the guy she wants to fuck. Leaving would be really hard. I’d have to live with my parents again and get a new job at least initially. Im starting to think I may have to make that leap eventually. As painful emotionally as it would be for me cause I do love her a lot and don’t want to start cheating as it would definitely hurt her
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2021.10.16 20:45 Emergency_Ticket Apologies to Governor Evers for almost running him over with my bicycle

Apologies to Governor Evers for almost running him over with my bicycle today. It was on the bridge leading to Lakeshore State Park, in MKE, along my regular route. An event of some kind was taking place and there was a crowd of 40 or 50 people crowded on the bridge taking photos with the govenor. Now I didn't know it was the govenor, I just thought it was some club or large tour group. It happens, it's a popular spot and I try to be polite and slow down and ring my bike bell, but I do persist, as it is a shared public path and park. People should be aware and, well, share the road as it were. Well the first few in the crowd turned and saw me approach, and by the time I got nearer I was nearly stopped, because of the people, doing that odd walk while straddling the bike with my feet on the ground. And as the crowd parted, probably a bit put out by a bicyclist pushing through, there was the govenor! Standing right before me: He smiled as he stepped back, and then I smiled, and mumbled a quick "sorry governor" and he said, words to the affect, "not to worry ... it's a nice day for a bike ride", as he patted me on the shoulder. Before I knew it, I was past the crowd and back on my ride. Whew! If I could do it over again, I would have told Tony to keep up the good work, and I certainly didn't mean to almost run you over!
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2021.10.16 20:45 Josejacobuk I’m the trouble starter

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2021.10.16 20:45 sinkre He actually got a way better launch, fell behind before the 1/8

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2021.10.16 20:45 ywna-kopite Tell an intriguing kiss story.

I am bad at telling stories. Hope someone will be having interesting stories.
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2021.10.16 20:45 No_Manager342 So Many Differences in This World

Hi, this is my first post here. I am a true believeexperiencer of QI, and I think this is my 7th or 8th world that I'm aware of.
It's so weird because I lived for so long believing only in one world, one life. It's said by many that there was a mass transfer of consciousness around 2008 or so. Some say that the button was pressed and our old world nuked into non-existence. I tend to believe that something happened because I have conflicting memories from years before then. And then 2012 has been mentioned as a major consciousness shift as well.
In 2017, I had anaphylaxis from eating shrimp. I didn't know I had become allergic. I came out of my body four times. So, I expect I blipped right through those worlds within minutes of each other. It seems when one is out of their body, they are outside spacetime; the problem being that spacetime marches on.
After this experience, I noticed some pretty major changes like a coworker no longer having a serious disease that I know she had before. There were other little Mandela Effect things too.
This past May, I'm pretty sure I died of a heart attack in my sleep in that old world. I had been having pretty severe chest pains, but I didn't seek medical help. I figured it was indigestion or any other number of things. I really didn't think it was serious. Nothing serious had ever happened before, and I tended to worry over every little thing anyway. One day in late May, I woke up and the chest pains were gone, and they've never come back.
Since then, I have noticed even greater changes. I have had a blind spot in my right eye since the 1990's. It's way off in my upper peripheral vision, so it was never a problem. Now, I suddenly have a second blind spot in my right eye. It is closer to my central field of vision and very annoying. I went to the eye doctor about it, but he said it was just like the other one, nothing to worry about, and my brain would learn to compensate for it.
I also had a broken item that I was intending to fix, but when I went to get it and make the repairs, it was not broken at all, but like new again! That totally blew my mind.
Some movies are different. For example, one of my favorites is Bruce Lee in The Big Boss. I bought the DVD several years ago. I watched it when I got it, and it was a cool movie as I remembered. Recently, I got it out to watch it again, and it is very different! I know there are multiple versions of the film, but my DVD was the American version without the extra gory fight scene at the end. It didn't have the part where Cheng sticks his fingers in the big boss' chest.
My copy also did not have the little boy getting killed, nor Cheng's cringe-worthy grief scene with the hideous musical accompaniment! It did not have Cheng sitting by the river with a vision of his deceased cousins appearing.
My copy did have the scene where the two bodies are discovered in blocks of ice at the factory. That is no longer there!
When I watched the film recently with my husband, I was SO confused! He kept asking me questions, and I couldn't answer them because I barely recognized the movie! Somehow my DVD is now one of those other versions.
I also remember the plot a little differently altogether. I recall that all of Cheng's cousins were not killed. Mae Ling was not a rat fink who went and called the police on Cheng. At the end of the film I remember, she helps Cheng to his feet after the big fight, and they walk away to where his remaining cousins are waiting, and they all go home together. Now the film is an absolute bloodbath, and I can't even watch it anymore.
There are other little things bothering me too. At work, my memories don't always match up to others'. Some words are spelled differently. The brand name Adidas is foreign to me. I distinctly remember classmates at school wearing Addidas shirts.
It's a lot to take in; a lot of stopping and being careful what I say, allowing that others' experiences and memories are likely correct for this world. I was always an excellent speller, and now I spend more time than I should being confused. A hard transition this time, I guess.
Has anyone had a similar experience? Is anyone else struggling with sudden changes like these? Please share!
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2021.10.16 20:45 8Ball_Octopus42 Mob Votes have been quite the ride so far haven't they been

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2021.10.16 20:45 The_SG1405 Cry me a river while my boy allay collects cookies for me

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2021.10.16 20:45 Jimbo_1118 I hope it’s just not me…..

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2021.10.16 20:45 on_space are the overviews of a fight worth reading ?

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2021.10.16 20:45 DaiyuSamal Love and relationship readings, money, career and more ❤️

Hi lovely folks. I've been a long time Tarot reader. As a reader, I don't sugar-coat things. I say what's needed to be said, what the cards say. I'm straightforward because I believe that would benefit the person. If you don't want to listen to things you don't want to hear, please avoid. I mostly answer the following questions

I also answer other questions provided they're not related to legal or health reasons. I won't risk on those as they are generally a high profile matter.
Here are my reviews
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2021.10.16 20:45 EETFUK68 Anyone else watch the Wild Vs Ducks game?

How on earth can someone related to Ron Hextall be so bad at commentary? Looking at you, Leah Hextall.
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2021.10.16 20:45 tsla4k Could Tesla's share price hit US$3000? Holon argues the super bull's case

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2021.10.16 20:45 judgeholden72 Still from Disney's next live action prequel: Scar

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2021.10.16 20:45 ATTORNEY_FOR_CATS I can't afford Europe, so I'm going to see US state capitals

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2021.10.16 20:45 SOSpineapple selling a cheeto

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2021.10.16 20:45 Key-Environment-6317 Is Q.I limited or infinite? Will I (in some branch)live to see mankind reach leve II kardashev?

i suck at maths but i consider to have a good background studying non-mystical Q.I. Everett,sean caroll, fred alan wolf,i read these authors,lurked lesswrong and read some sequences. etc. I know about Many worlds,inflationary cosmology,orch-or etc,im well-informed.
thus, my question! will I live only up to my maximum natural death age ? like, living up until 120 years old. Or will i escape even death by aging(do people even die just because theyre old,tho)? i really want to see the future,the new technology, the colonizing of mars, the endgame of Natura and Earth against humans, i want to see it all.
As i said,i dont believe in reality shifting or the like,i just want scientific answers and speculations.
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2021.10.16 20:45 urmom1240 ur mom

ur mom
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2021.10.16 20:45 Tuobb What do we know about structural dna, How well is it categorized?

You know, cell function on an individual and so on? Anything. Mayby some research papers to look at.
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2021.10.16 20:45 quietly-rioting Gifted Baabara in boxes.

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2021.10.16 20:45 GoodLuck07 Looking for the best CRM

Hey there, I currently use Housecall pro for my window cleaning company and it work fantastic. Now I'm in the process of starting a new company with my wife and we're looking for the best Pet sitting / dog walking crm there is. If possible we want to be able to do all the basic but we also want to take Credit card payment with it. Open API is also a must so we can merge other system with it.

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2021.10.16 20:45 MinerAC4 This was a pretty og sfoth server, it was pretty chill.

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